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Las Vegas Recap

Las Vegas was sunny and warm and as relaxing as we could make it. We spent a lot of time eating and sitting by the pool and a little time walking around. We had a couple of excellent meals, saw (a Cirque de Soleil show) and stayed in two different hotels (that story to follow in another post). Neither Randy nor I are gamblers, so the extent of our gambling consisted of the $15.00 I lost within 3 minutes while sitting at a slot machine in the MGM casino waiting for Randy to pick up our show tickets. My legs held out for the limited walking around that we did, although my feet suffered a bit from the cute shoes I wore to the show and to the scholarship award ceremony.

Before we left, I threw my brunette wig in the suitcase thinking that I might want to wear it instead of a scarf if I dressed up for dinner. And indeed, when I got dressed on Wednesday night I decided that the scarves I had just didn’t work with the outfit I was wearing so I put the wig on. It was great to have hair for an evening, even if the wig itself drove me crazy all night. I spent a lot of the time worried about it slipping backward or forward and was so relieved when I was finally able to take it off that night. It was a strange experience to wear it since I have hardly worn a wig at all since I lost my hair. Apparently I have gotten used to people looking at me because I definitely noticed that they weren’t looking at me that night.

Every time I see this I think it’s a picture of Randy and my sister, Molly.
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Randy and some chick he picked up in Vegas.

The award ceremony (or what I thought was going to be an award ceremony) was held at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino on Thursday night. I was told to be there at 7:30 p.m. and that my award would probably be presented around 9:00 p.m. that evening. Not knowing exactly what to expect, I dressed in one of my favorite lawyer uniforms complete with pearls, pumps and pantyhose.

Randy and I arrived at the Hard Rock early, so we snuck into Nobu for some champagne and sushi (which was amazing) and then sauntered over to the designated room around 7:00 p.m. or so. As soon as we got there I recognized Daniel Kovach, the man who runs CollegeScholarships.org, and introduced myself to him. We talked with him for a few minutes and got the run-down about what was going on during the evening.
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With Daniel Kovach.

At one point I noticed two people walking by with t-shirts on that said “wifeadvice.com” and I realized that one of them was probably one of the other scholarship contestants. I ran after them and once I caught up with them breathlessly asked if he was Chris Clark and sure enough, he was. I spent a few minutes talking with him and his wife, Nancy. They are both smart and friendly and I really enjoyed meeting them. We rehashed the contest and talked a bit about the expo and blogs and then went our separate ways.
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With Chris and Nancy from wifeadvice.com.

The “event” of the evening was a Blog World Expo party for expo attendees. There was music and food and drinks, but since Randy and I were not expo attendees we were not allowed to go in until it was time for our award. I didn’t know any of this until we got there and I also didn’t know that the party was billed as the world’s largest pajama party. The pajama party idea was meant to be a shot at criticism leveled against professional bloggers a few years ago. Someone implied that compared to journalists from 60 Minutes who work with many levels of checks and balances over their writing, blogger journalists are just a bunch of people sitting around in their living rooms in their pajamas. We saw a lot of people dressed in pajamas, robes, and slippers, and my suit and heels suddenly began to seem pretty formal and out of place.

The pajama party was held in “The Joint”, a small venue in the Hard Rock with a bar on one side of the room and a stage on the other. It was rather dark and filled with pulsing blue and purple light and music, as well as lots of people mingling amid tall bar tables and stools and tables of food, including a chocolate fountain.

Because we were not required to be in the event room for another hour or so, Daniel, Randy and I sat at one of the casino bars and talked. I admit to being very curious about Daniel and the way the whole scholarship program worked, so I was happy to have an opportunity to talk with him and to get to know him a little bit. Daniel Kovach is energetic and dynamic and quite an interesting guy. He definitely knows the ins and outs of internet marketing and traffic generation, and I was impressed with how much he has accomplished for such a young guy. We spent an entertaining hour getting to know one another and then it was 8:30 p.m., which was when we were supposed to go into the event room to get ready for the awards presentations.

At about 8:45 p.m., Randy and I left Daniel sitting at the bar and headed to “The Joint”. I told the people guarding the door that I was the blogging scholarship award recipient, and suddenly the pace of the evening picked up. Someone slapped wristbands on my and Randy’s wrists, someone else told us that I needed to be up on the stage right now and yet another person led us quickly through the rather dense crowd right to the base of the stage. There I spoke with the expo organizer, Rick Calvert, who wanted to know where Daniel was. There was a gentleman at the podium on stage finishing up the presentation of various weblog awards and Rick wanted Daniel to present the scholarship award as soon as he finished. Randy offered to run back to the bar to find Daniel, I sent him a text message and Rick asked the presenter to stall for a moment. It was all a bit chaotic and we were ultimately unable to connect with Daniel until he came into the room a few minutes later just before 9:00 p.m. By then the opportunity to make a formal presentation on stage had passed.

I had prepared a short thank you speech just in case I needed it and had some notes written out on a piece of Planet Hollywood hotel stationery which I was holding in my hand in anticipation of the award presentation. Although I didn’t end up giving the speech on stage, I did end up giving an impromptu version of it. Once he realized that there wasn’t going to be a formal presentation, Daniel pulled the giant check he had ordered for the occasion out of its box. And suddenly I felt like I was on the red carpet at the Oscars.

As Daniel and I stood side by side holding the check, cameras descended on us from all sides, a crowd formed around us, and before I knew it there was a video camera with a bright light in front of us and a microphone in front of me. The guy with the microphone asked Daniel about the award and Daniel turned it over to me. I think I gave some form of my speech, but I have absolutely no idea what I actually said. I do remember the camera guy and the guy with the microphone frantically pointing at the camera lens to try to get me to look into it while answering their questions instead of looking at the guy holding the microphone while I was talking. When I looked at the pictures later I realized that I somehow managed to free one hand to gesture while I talked despite holding my unopened speech notes AND a giant check.
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The interview.

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All of this took place in a whirlwind between 8:45 and 9:15 p.m. and then it was over. My feet were killing me and we were ready to get out of there, so Randy and I said our thank yous and goodbyes and left. We dragged that giant check all the way home and now it’s sitting in our family room waiting to end up in its new home in the basement crawl space.

Even though the reason I went to Las Vegas never actually happened, it was a good trip. It was nice to get away and to relax in the warmth and sunshine for a couple of days after all the activity and difficult days of the last few months. And now I am home and ready to start the serious business of feeling better and getting my life back to normal.

Comments

What a fun story! And I must say that you look GORGEOUS Kim!!! Wig or NO wig! CONGRATS on the scholarship!
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Laurie

Wow, cameras and interviews, you're a celebrity!! Glad you had a good time, you deserve it!!!

Thanks for the update. You look great.

Now about that loan...

;)

We were thrilled to have met you! Too bad it was so hectic, because we would have loved to hear your speech! Congratulations again!

What a wonderful story!

(And I think you look a bit like Julia Roberts with the wig!)

Kim, this sounds just wonderful... Congratulations!! And, do you look glam or WHAT?! So glad that you and Randy had a good time.

I second the request to "hear" your acceptance speech. Would you consider posting it?

Much love-- CGF xo

I agree about the Julia Roberts thing. You look fantastic (and your hubby's a cutie!!) Sounds like you all had a blast even though you couldn't be on stage. Man, you'd think someone would have told you about the pajama part. Still, I know I always feel more confident in a suit and I bet you wouldn't have wanted to be on camera in your PJs. ;)

Kim, it's been awhile since I have peeked in here. My apologies, because I think of you and your strength every day. I want to tell you CONGRATS again on winning the award, and I am so excited that you had the chance to check out Vegas. You are One Hot Chick in those photos; I truly dig the one of you in your headwrap. You look great, quite healthy in your face and that smile of yours - wow - you are a model and a role model for all women. I wish you continued cancer-ass-kicking vibes - keep up the good work. Hugs -

my bf and I were both remarking how great you look even without the wig! i was like you and hardly wore one, but it was fun on occasion. Once I was wearing it when I met my ex-bf for coffee. The only time I'd seen him since the diagnosis. We had a nice time and then as we hugged goodbye, the hug sqeezed my wig just so and it fell compleely off - right on the street outside my hotel! He was smooth, but I think a little thrown off. I thought it was hysterical...

Sounds like a wonderful trip. Congratulations on a great time out, a great award -- and some pictures of you looking AWESOME!

Not only do you look happy and healthy, you look gorgeous! Congratulations again on the win and I'm so glad you had a good time. I think it's so important to do something "normal" - even though I don't suppose a weekend in Las Vegas could technically be considered normal. lol

I'm so glad you had a good time. And too bad you didn't get your "15 minutes" actually on stage. I think you look lovely in your wig but would it be rude to say that you look so striking in just the scarf. We all tend to focus on hair so much... without it to draw attention away from your face your beautiful features are fully visible.

Yay!!!! You look wonderful. Rested and beautiful. And yes, healthy and happy. Good for you my friend.

Congrats! on your award. Your smile is brighter than all the lights in Vegas.. Happy to hear you had a good time! You look wonderful. Thank you so much for all your knowledge and education to all of us woman. Looking forward to future writings on life AFTER Cancer!!

CONGRATS again on the award! You look great in the pics you've posted.

She really does have a glow when you see her in person. I couldn't be more happy with her winning the scholarship. Besides her obvious good looks, she has a spirit that I strive to achieve every day.

Wow! You look beautiful -- like an actress or model who is pretending to be someone who has just gone through chemo, not someone who lived it.

I'm so glad you won, Kim. Congrats!